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Hello everyone;

Lately the posts here have been slow, even for me!  Life has really been quite a ride lately. 

With out going into too much detail, I will be "on hiatus" for awhile.  My husband and I have decided to divorce.  I will be moving out within the next week or two, and probably not have acess to a computer at least for the next month or two, except for the library.  I may check in, but frankly I have so many other obligations right now the blogstream has to take a back seat. 

At the moment we are actually fairly amicable, which I really hope continues, especially for our kids' sake.  I am very worried about our boys.  Alec and Sean are such great kids.  They've have been through so much.  This will be tough on them.  Because of my work scheduale we will be able to do a joint custody arrangement, and the kids are not moving.  My soon to be ex and I will be the ones coming in and out of the house, pretty close to the times we do now. 

I appreciate all the support and comments I have recieved in the past, and I already miss you guys.  I hope to come back, so I will not be deactivating, at least not now.

Take care everyone.

Kelly

Posted by Midnight43 at 4:49 PM - 18 Comments   Add a Comment  
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Oh Kelly, I am so sorry!  
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by Lucy. (PM , CC ) on Friday May 19, 2006 @ 7:55 PM




Best wishes Kelly,
We will miss you and hope that all goes while for you while you are away ... But I do hope you return. It's always good to see you. Remember, we are all just a click away, if you ned a hug or a kind word!
Take care,
Taylor
 
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by kktaylorcc (PM , CC ) on Friday May 19, 2006 @ 7:59 PM




Aww Mid, it sounds like you've thought this over and this is the best conclusion...
I wish you the best and I'll really miss you while you're gone, I hope you'll be back.
If there's anything I can do to help, let me know, okay?
 
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by Dazey (PM , CC ) on Friday May 19, 2006 @ 8:04 PM




Hi M!

Divorce? Oh no, that's so difficult to swallow. Hope everything's okay.

I'm having problems getting online too. My computer crashed, and my father went outstation for a month. Nobody's there to fix the computer. Oh well... I guess I have to check my blog once a week from now.

Have faith okay? Everything'll be okay.
 
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by Doria (PM , CC ) on Saturday May 20, 2006 @ 10:41 PM




Well Girlfriend,
You are right, this is going to be a rough time for a while. I am sorry the conclusion came to this marriage in this form. The kids will have a hard time and expect an emotional rollercoaster for you all.
If you need a shoulder, I am here, it is a long ride but the bumps in the road end. Do not above a good counselor to help you and the boys.
Be good to yourself.
 
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by Whispered Promise (PM , CC ) on Sunday May 21, 2006 @ 12:36 AM




I'm so sorry for you and for your kids. This will indeed be a tough time for you all and the Stream will be right here waiting for you when you're ready to come back!

Debbie
 
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by deeej (PM , CC ) on Tuesday May 30, 2006 @ 10:00 PM




Oh, no....!

Thinking of you... I know it's a difficult time at best. Those of us who have been thru it share in your tears. Take good care, Mid! This too shall pass. Yes it will. :) -Six
 
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by SixFootBlonde (PM , CC ) on Tuesday May 30, 2006 @ 10:06 PM




Thinking of you!!  
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by LiFeIsPeAcHy (PM , CC ) on Saturday June 3, 2006 @ 2:31 PM




It might be that I'm seeing your journey from a convoluted view, Mid, but maybe this indicates a new beginning, rather than an ending. There is no easy way to go through divorce, but over time you'll surely discover new horizons. And we, your friends on the Stream, will welcome you back when the time comes for you to return.  
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by Captain Morgan (PM , CC ) on Sunday June 4, 2006 @ 5:27 AM




Kelly I hope you get a chance from time to time to come back...Having gone through a divorce I know you are doing what you need to do to keep going in the right directions. If you ever need me you know where to find me.

I know you will be back sometimes, but I just wanted to add my support, which you know you have on your blog.
 
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by Coloconnect (PM , CC ) on Sunday June 11, 2006 @ 10:44 AM




so sorry to hear of your impending divorce--this will be a hard time for you, your husband and children--but you know that you will always have friends here on blogstream-even if you just want to vent out---everybody is a good listener and most do not judge---so, good luck and I hope you will come back, if you decide to leave---  
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by grandma baba (PM , CC ) on Sunday June 11, 2006 @ 3:19 PM




Hi girl....come back! We miss you!  
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by Lucy. (PM , CC ) on Friday June 16, 2006 @ 11:47 PM




Hi Kelly! Missed the blog and you.  
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by Doria (PM , CC ) on Tuesday June 20, 2006 @ 11:18 PM




A simple hope that you are well.  
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by MrOrnery1851 (PM , CC ) on Sunday June 25, 2006 @ 12:10 AM




Oh, Kelly! I don't know where I've been but I am so sorry this has happened! Such a difficult decision and so difficult to go through! My prayers are with you and your family.  
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by Topaz (PM , CC ) on Tuesday July 4, 2006 @ 11:29 AM




Hope you are having a good 4th, Kelly!  
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by kktaylorcc (PM , CC ) on Tuesday July 4, 2006 @ 11:53 AM




I can't imagine what the full whiplash of a devorce must feel like Mid, but I will be thinking and praying for you.  
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by Grandpa John (PM , CC ) on Wednesday July 5, 2006 @ 9:50 AM


 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

   
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